Lời giải:
Từ PT$(1)\Rightarrow x=m+1-my$. Thay vô PT(2):

$m(m+1-my)+y=3m-1$

$\Leftrightarrow y(1-m^2)+m^2+m=3m-1$

$\Leftrightarrow y(1-m^2)=-m^2+2m-1(*)$

Để hpt có nghiệm $(x,y)$ duy nhất thì pt $(*)$ cũng phải có nghiệm $y$ duy nhất 

Điều này xảy ra khi $1-m^2\neq 0\Leftrightarrow m\neq \pm 1$
Khi đó: $y=\frac{-m^2+2m-1}{1-m^2}=\frac{-(m-1)^2}{-(m-1)(m+1)}=\frac{m-1}{m+1}$

$x=m+1-my=m+1-\frac{m(m-1)}{m+1}=\frac{3m+1}{m+1}$

Có:

$x+y=\frac{m-1}{m+1}+\frac{3m+1}{m+1}=\frac{4m}{m+1}<0$

$\Leftrightarrow -1< m< 0$

Kết hợp với đk $m\neq \pm 1$ suy ra $-1< m< 0$ thì thỏa đề.

=>y=(m+1)x-m-1 và x+(m^2-1)x-m^2+1=2

=>x=2-1+m^2/m^2 và y=(m+1)x-m-1

=>x=(m^2+1)/m^2 và y=(m^3+m^2+m+1-m^3-m^2)/m^2=(m+1)/m^2

x+y=(m^2+m+2)/m^2

Để x+y min thì m^2+m+2 min

=>m^2+m+1/4+7/4 min

=>(m+1/2)^2+7/4min

=>m=-1/2

Để hệ phương trình có nghiệm duy nhất thì \(\dfrac{1}{m}\ne\dfrac{m}{1}\)

=>\(m^2\ne1\)

=>\(m\notin\left\{1;-1\right\}\)

Khi \(m\notin\left\{1;-1\right\}\) thì \(\left\{{}\begin{matrix}x+my=m+1\\mx+y=2m\end{matrix}\right.\)

=>\(\left\{{}\begin{matrix}x=m+1-my\\m\left(m+1-my\right)+y=2m\end{matrix}\right.\)

=>\(\left\{{}\begin{matrix}x=m+1-my\\m^2+m-m^2y+y-2m=0\end{matrix}\right.\)

=>\(\left\{{}\begin{matrix}y\left(-m^2+1\right)=-m^2+m\\x=m+1-my\end{matrix}\right.\)

=>\(\left\{{}\begin{matrix}y=\dfrac{m^2-m}{m^2-1}=\dfrac{m\left(m-1\right)}{\left(m-1\right)\left(m+1\right)}=\dfrac{m}{m+1}\\x=m+1-\dfrac{m^2}{m+1}\end{matrix}\right.\)

=>\(\left\{{}\begin{matrix}y=\dfrac{m}{m+1}\\x=\dfrac{\left(m+1\right)^2-m^2}{m+1}=\dfrac{2m+1}{m+1}\end{matrix}\right.\)

Để \(\left\{{}\begin{matrix}x>=2\\y>=1\end{matrix}\right.\) thì \(\left\{{}\begin{matrix}\dfrac{2m+1}{m+1}>=2\\\dfrac{m}{m+1}>=1\end{matrix}\right.\)

=>\(\left\{{}\begin{matrix}\dfrac{2m+1-2\left(m+1\right)}{m+1}>=0\\\dfrac{m-m-1}{m+1}>=0\end{matrix}\right.\)

=>\(\left\{{}\begin{matrix}\dfrac{2m+1-2m-2}{m+1}>=0\\\dfrac{-1}{m+1}>=0\end{matrix}\right.\)

=>\(\left\{{}\begin{matrix}-\dfrac{1}{m+1}>=0\\-\dfrac{1}{m+1}>=0\end{matrix}\right.\Leftrightarrow m+1< 0\)

=>m<-1

Để hệ có nghiệm duy nhất thì \(\dfrac{m}{2m}\ne\dfrac{1}{3}\)

=>\(\dfrac{1}{2}\ne\dfrac{1}{3}\)(luôn đúng)

\(\left\{{}\begin{matrix}mx+y=5\\2mx+3y=6\end{matrix}\right.\)

=>\(\left\{{}\begin{matrix}2mx+2y=10\\2mx+3y=6\end{matrix}\right.\Leftrightarrow\left\{{}\begin{matrix}-y=4\\mx+y=5\end{matrix}\right.\)

=>\(\left\{{}\begin{matrix}y=-4\\mx=5-y=5-\left(-4\right)=9\end{matrix}\right.\)

=>\(\left\{{}\begin{matrix}y=-4\\x=\dfrac{9}{m}\end{matrix}\right.\)

\(\left(2m-1\right)\cdot x+\left(m+1\right)\cdot y=m\)

=>\(\dfrac{9}{m}\left(2m-1\right)+\left(m+1\right)\cdot\left(-4\right)=m\)

=>\(\dfrac{9\left(2m-1\right)}{m}=m+4m+4=5m+4\)

=>m(5m+4)=18m-9

=>\(5m^2-14m+9=0\)

=>(m-1)(5m-9)=0

=>\(\left[{}\begin{matrix}m=1\\m=\dfrac{9}{5}\end{matrix}\right.\)

\(HPT\Leftrightarrow\left\{{}\begin{matrix}x=m-y\\m-y+ym+y=1\end{matrix}\right.\Leftrightarrow\left\{{}\begin{matrix}x=m-y\\ym=1-m\end{matrix}\right.\\ \Leftrightarrow\left\{{}\begin{matrix}x=m-\dfrac{1-m}{m}=\dfrac{m^2+m-1}{m}\\y=\dfrac{1-m}{m}\end{matrix}\right.\)

\(x+2y>0\\ \Leftrightarrow\dfrac{m^2+m-1}{m}+\dfrac{2-2m}{m}>0\\ \Leftrightarrow\dfrac{m^2-m+1}{m}>0\)

Mà \(m^2-m+1=\left(m-\dfrac{1}{2}\right)^2+\dfrac{3}{4}>0\)

Vậy \(m>0\) thỏa đề

\(2)mx^2-2\left(m-1\right)x+m-1=0\)

Để pt có nghiệm kép \(\Leftrightarrow\left\{{}\begin{matrix}a\ne0\\\Delta=0\end{matrix}\right.\)

\(\Leftrightarrow\left\{{}\begin{matrix}m\ne0\\\left[-2\left(m-1\right)\right]^2-4m\left(m-1\right)=0\end{matrix}\right.\)

\(\Leftrightarrow4\left(m^2-2m+1\right)-4m^2+4m=0\)

\(\Leftrightarrow4m^2-8m+4-4m^2+4m=0\)

\(\Leftrightarrow-4m+4=0\)

\(\Leftrightarrow m=1\)

Vậy để pt trên có nghiệm kép thì \(\left\{{}\begin{matrix}m\ne0\\m=1\end{matrix}\right.\)