=(x+y-3x)(x+y+3x)
=(-2x+y)(4x+y)
\(\left(x+y\right)^2-9x^2\)
\(=\left(x+y\right)^2-\left(3x\right)^2\)
\(=\left[\left(x+y\right)+3x\right]\left[\left(x+y\right)-3x\right]\)
\(=\left(x+y+3x\right)\left(x+y-3x\right)\)
\(=\left(4x+y\right)\left(-2x+y\right)\)