\(\dfrac{x_1}{x_2}+\dfrac{x_2}{x_1}=-14\\ \Rightarrow\dfrac{x_1^2}{x_1x_2}+\dfrac{x_2^2}{x_1x_2}=-14\\ \Rightarrow\dfrac{x_1^2+x_2^2}{x_1x_2}=-14\\ \Rightarrow\dfrac{\left(x_1+x_2\right)^2-2x_1x_2}{x_1x_2}=-14\\ \Rightarrow\dfrac{m^2-2.-3}{-3}=-14\\ \Rightarrow m^2=36\\ \Rightarrow\left[{}\begin{matrix}m=6\\m=-6\end{matrix}\right.\)