=>x^2+4x+4-x^2+9=-3
=>4x+13=-3
=>4x=-16
=>x=-4
\(\left(x+2\right)^2-\left(x-3\right)\left(x+3\right)=-3\\ \Leftrightarrow x^2+4x+4-x^2-9=-3\\ \Leftrightarrow x^2-x^2+4x=-3-4+9\\ \Leftrightarrow4x=-16\\ \Leftrightarrow x=-4\)
Vậy \(S=\left\{-4\right\}\)