\(\left\{{}\begin{matrix}\left(x+y\right)\left(x-1\right)=\left(x-y\right)\left(x+1\right)+2\left(xy+1\right)\\\left(y-x\right)\left(y+1\right)=\left(y+x\right)\left(y-2\right)-2xy\end{matrix}\right.\)
=>\(\left\{{}\begin{matrix}x^2-x+xy-y=x^2+x-xy-y+2xy+2\\y^2+y-xy-x=y^2-2y+xy-2x-2xy\end{matrix}\right.\)
=>\(\left\{{}\begin{matrix}x^2+xy-x-y=x^2+xy+x-y+2\\y^2+y-xy-x=y^2-xy-2y-2x\end{matrix}\right.\)
=>\(\left\{{}\begin{matrix}-2x=2\\y-x+2y+2x=0\end{matrix}\right.\)
=>\(\left\{{}\begin{matrix}x=-1\\x+3y=0\end{matrix}\right.\Leftrightarrow\left\{{}\begin{matrix}x=-1\\3y=-x=1\end{matrix}\right.\)
=>\(\left\{{}\begin{matrix}x=-1\\y=\dfrac{1}{3}\end{matrix}\right.\)