\(\dfrac{1}{3x+xy}=\dfrac{1}{x\left(y+3\right)}=\dfrac{\left(x+y\right)^2}{x\left(y+3\right)\left(x+y\right)^2}\)
\(2x+2y=2\left(x+y\right)=\dfrac{2\left(x+y\right)\cdot x\left(y+3\right)\left(x+y\right)^2}{x\left(y+3\right)\left(x+y\right)^2}\)
\(\dfrac{1}{x^2+2xy+y^2}=\dfrac{3x+xy}{x\left(y+3\right)\left(x+y\right)^2}\)