Ta có :
\(M=\left(a+1\right)\left(1+\frac{a}{b}\right)+\left(b+1\right)\left(1+\frac{1}{a}\right)\)
\(=2+\frac{a}{b}+\frac{b}{a}+a+b+\frac{1}{a}+\frac{1}{b}\ge2+2+a+b+\frac{4}{a+b}\)
\(=4+a+b+\frac{2}{a+b}+\frac{2}{a+b}\ge4+2\sqrt{\left(a+b\right)\frac{2}{a+b}}+\frac{2}{\sqrt{2\left(a^2-b^2\right)}}=4+3\sqrt{2}\)
Vậy \(_{Min}M=4+3\sqrt{2}\)khi \(a=b=\frac{1}{\sqrt{2}}\)