\(2\left(a^2+b^2\right)=\left(a+b\right)^2\)
\(\Leftrightarrow2a^2+2b^2=a^2+2ab+b^2\)
\(\Leftrightarrow2a^2+2b^2-a^2-2ab-b^2=0\)
\(\Leftrightarrow a^2-2ab+b^2=0\)
\(\Leftrightarrow\left(a-b\right)^2=0\)
\(\Leftrightarrow a-b=0\)
\(\Leftrightarrow a=b\)