PT có 2 nghiệm phân biệt \(\Leftrightarrow\Delta'=\left(m+1\right)^2+32>0\left(\text{đúng }\forall m\right)\)
Theo Vi-ét: \(\begin{cases} x_1+x_2=-2(m+1)=-2m-2\\ x_1x_2=-8 \end{cases}\)
Vì $x_1$ là nghiệm của PT nên \(x_1^2=-2(m+1)x_1+8\)
Ta có \(x_1^2=x_2\)
\(\Leftrightarrow-2\left(m+1\right)x_1+8=x_2\\ \Leftrightarrow x_2+2mx_1+2x_1-8=0\\ \Leftrightarrow\left(x_1+x_2\right)+2mx_1+x_1-8=0\\ \Leftrightarrow x_1\left(2m+1\right)-2m-10=0\\ \Leftrightarrow x_1=\dfrac{2m+10}{2m+1}\)
Mà \(x_1+x_2=-2m-2\Leftrightarrow x_2=-2m-2-\dfrac{2m+10}{2m+1}=\dfrac{-4m^2-8m-12}{2m+1}\)
Ta có \(x_1x_2=-8\)
\(\Leftrightarrow\dfrac{2m+10}{2m+1}\cdot\dfrac{-4m^2-8m-12}{2m+1}=-8\\ \Leftrightarrow\left(2m+10\right)\left(m^2+2m+3\right)=2\left(2m+1\right)^2\\ \Leftrightarrow m^3+3m^2+9m+14=0\\ \Leftrightarrow m^3+2m^2+m^2+2m+7m+14=0\\ \Leftrightarrow\left(m+2\right)\left(m^2+m+7\right)=0\\ \Rightarrow m=-2\)
Vậy $m=-2$