\(x^2+2xy+y^2+x^2-6x+9+\left|y+3\right|=0\)
\(\Leftrightarrow\left(x+y\right)^2+\left(x-3\right)^2+\left|y+3\right|=0\)
\(\Rightarrow\left\{{}\begin{matrix}x+y=0\\x-3=0\\y+3=0\end{matrix}\right.\) \(\Rightarrow\left\{{}\begin{matrix}x=3\\y=-3\end{matrix}\right.\)