\(\Leftrightarrow\left\{{}\begin{matrix}3\left(x+y\right)^2+\left(x-y\right)^2+\dfrac{3}{\left(x+y\right)^2}=\dfrac{85}{3}\\\left(x+y\right)+\left(x-y\right)+\dfrac{1}{x+y}=\dfrac{13}{3}\end{matrix}\right.\)
\(a=x+y\); \(b=x-y\)
\(\Leftrightarrow\left\{{}\begin{matrix}3a^2+b^2+\dfrac{3}{a^2}=\dfrac{85}{3}\\a+b+\dfrac{1}{a}=\dfrac{13}{3}\end{matrix}\right.\)
\(\Leftrightarrow\left\{{}\begin{matrix}3\left(a+\dfrac{1}{a}\right)^2-6+b^2=\dfrac{85}{3}\\a+\dfrac{1}{a}=\dfrac{13}{3}-b\end{matrix}\right.\)
\(\Rightarrow3\left(\dfrac{13}{3}-b\right)^2-6+b^2=\dfrac{85}{3}\)
\(\Leftrightarrow\left[{}\begin{matrix}b=1\\b=\dfrac{11}{2}\end{matrix}\right.\)đến đây tự làm nha