\(\left\{{}\begin{matrix}x+my=3\\m^2x+my=2m^2+m\end{matrix}\right.\)
\(\Rightarrow\left\{{}\begin{matrix}x+my=3\\\left(m^2-1\right)x=2m^2+m-3\end{matrix}\right.\)
\(\Rightarrow\left\{{}\begin{matrix}x+my=3\\x=\dfrac{2m+3}{m+1}\end{matrix}\right.\) \(\Rightarrow\left\{{}\begin{matrix}x=\dfrac{2m+3}{m+1}\\y=\dfrac{1}{m+1}\end{matrix}\right.\)
\(P=\left(\dfrac{2m+3}{m+1}\right)^2+\dfrac{3}{\left(m+1\right)^2}=\left(2+\dfrac{1}{m+1}\right)^2+\dfrac{3}{\left(m+1\right)^2}\)
\(=4+\dfrac{4}{m+1}+\dfrac{4}{\left(m+1\right)^2}=\left(\dfrac{2}{m+1}+1\right)^2+3\ge3\)
\(P_{min}=3\) khi \(m=-3\)