\(\Leftrightarrow4x^2+8xy+4y^2+x^2+2x+1+y^2-2y+1=0\)
\(\Leftrightarrow4\left(x+y\right)^2+\left(x+1\right)^2+\left(y-1\right)^2=0\)
\(\Leftrightarrow\left\{{}\begin{matrix}x+y=0\\x+1=0\\y-1=0\end{matrix}\right.\) \(\Rightarrow\left\{{}\begin{matrix}x=-1\\y=1\end{matrix}\right.\)
\(\Rightarrow M=1\)