\( \left\{ \begin{array}{l} x + 2y = 1\\ 2x + 5 = - 4y \end{array} \right. \Leftrightarrow \left\{ \begin{array}{l} x + 2y = 1\\ 2x + 4y = - 5 \end{array} \right.\left( {VN} \right) \Rightarrow A\\ \left\{ \begin{array}{l} 2x - 3y = 5\\ 4x + my = 2 \end{array} \right. \Leftrightarrow \dfrac{2}{4} = \dfrac{{ - 3}}{m} \Leftrightarrow 2m = - 12 \Leftrightarrow m = - 6 \ne \dfrac{5}{2} \Rightarrow A \)