\(\dfrac{x^2-3xy+y^2}{x+y+2}=\dfrac{\left(3+\sqrt{5}\right)^2+3\left(3+\sqrt{5}\right)\left(3-\sqrt{5}\right)+\left(3-\sqrt{5}\right)^2}{3+\sqrt{5}+3-\sqrt{5}+2}=\dfrac{9+2\cdot3\sqrt{5}+5+3\left(9-5\right)+9-2\cdot3\cdot\sqrt{5}+5}{8}=\dfrac{40}{8}=5\)