Charity is the process of giving or helping someone either by money or by physical help. A real person is that who helps others but giving comfort to his or her family members or relatives too. Charity always should begins from home, if your family members or relatives are not in well condition and you are working for social services then it is your duty to first help your closer ones who are completely depended on you then should help others.
Some people who are selfish and help others for their personal advantage, this kind of people even forget the real meaning of charity, they just do a business deal in form of charity. A true person who is in favour of charity will always take care of his loved ones first and then help others physically or financially. Being polite, humble and generous to your family is the real meaning of charity begins at home. For a person who works outside the house for social services is primarily needed by his or her kids or elder person, this is the charity at home. Thus, family and your self is your first priority before helping and serving others.