Amanda
Married: 05/15/2010
Aug 04, 2009 at 7:59 AM • Flag As Inappropriate
I ....... understood ......people think it's tradition to make you do something you don't want to for YOUR wedding. I think they just pretend that it is ...... your suppose to do ........... they have no real reason to make you do it. Stand by what you think is best ...... you. If you don't want someone in your bridal party just say no. I have been/am being a bridesmaid in both .............. weddings but they will not be standing up with me. ......you think it will cause drama face it head on so people don't start talking behind your back and getting all worked up. ..........them and say this is what I'm doing, ........your reasoning and that should be it. I'm ....... it will all work out, good luck & happy planning!
Amanda
Married: 05/15/2010
Aug 04, 2009 at 7:59 AM • Flag As Inappropriate
I ....... understood ......people think it's tradition to make you do something you don't want to for YOUR wedding. I think they just pretend that it is ..WHAT... your suppose to do .....BECAUSE...... they have no real reason to make you do it. Stand by what you think is best ..FOR.... you. If you don't want someone in your bridal party just say no. I have been/am being a bridesmaid in both ......MY COUSINS........ weddings but they will not be standing up with me. ..IF....you think it will cause drama face it head on so people don't start talking behind your back and getting all worked up. ....APPROACH.....them and say this is what I'm doing, .....EXPLAIN ...your reasoning and that should be it. I'm ...SURE.... it will all work out, good luck & happy planning!
Amanda
Married: 05/15/2010
Aug 04, 2009 at 7:59 AM • Flag As Inappropriate
I never understood why people think it's tradition to make you do something you don't want to for YOUR wedding. I think they just pretend that it is what your suppose to do because they have no real reason to make you do it. Stand by what you think is best for you. If you don't want someone in your bridal party just say no. I have been/am being a bridesmaid in both my cousins weddings but they will not be standing up with me. If you think it will cause drama face it head on so people don't start talking behind your back and getting all worked up. Approach them and say this is what I'm doing, explain your reasoning and that should be it. I'm sure it will all work out, good luck & happy planning!