Read the forum post. What advice does Kim give to Linh? What do you think of the advice?
Friends forum |
I’ve just started at a new school and there’s a group of people I hang out with. We have a laugh together, but it bothers me when they say that only ‘sad’ people study a lot. Last week they teased me when I got good marks in a history test. I’m not sure if I like that. Linh |
Hey, Linh, OK, well this is a slightly annoying situation, isn’t it? But quite common, IMO. Let’s think. What could you do? For a start you should probably ask these people why it’s ‘sad’ to do well. They might be having problems with some of the work. Hey – you could even offer to help them. What do you reckon? What else? Are you meeting a lot of new people at the moment? I bet that there are LOADS of other people that you can be friends with if you want. Just be yourself, ’cos then I can guarantee that people will respect you. If you like studying, that’s cool. You’re obviously popular and you don’t have to change who you are. And one more thing. You did the right thing asking for advice. It’s never a bad idea to talk to other people about it. Like they say, ‘a problem shared is a problem halved’. Anyway, good luck and I hope that things work out for you. Kim IMO = in my opinion |
Kim advises Linh to take several steps to address the situation with her new group of friends:
- Challenge their perspective: Kim suggests that Linh should ask her friends why they view studying as "sad." By initiating a conversation about their beliefs, Linh may gain insight into their attitudes and potentially influence their perspective.
- Offer help: Kim proposes that Linh could offer assistance to her friends if they are struggling with their schoolwork. This demonstrates kindness and empathy, while also potentially fostering a more positive dynamic within the group.
I think they are useful advice.
(Kim khuyên Linh nên thực hiện một số bước để giải quyết tình huống này với nhóm bạn mới của cô:
- Thử thách quan điểm của họ: Kim gợi ý Linh nên hỏi bạn bè tại sao họ coi việc học là “buồn”. Bằng cách bắt đầu cuộc trò chuyện về niềm tin của họ, Linh có thể hiểu rõ hơn về thái độ của họ và có khả năng ảnh hưởng đến quan điểm của họ.
- Đề nghị giúp đỡ: Kim đề xuất Linh có thể giúp đỡ bạn bè của cô ấy nếu họ gặp khó khăn trong việc học ở trường. Điều này thể hiện lòng tốt và sự đồng cảm, đồng thời cũng có khả năng thúc đẩy sự năng động tích cực hơn trong nhóm.
Tôi nghĩ đó là những lời khuyên hữu ích.)