\(TH1:a+b+c+d\ne0\)
\(\dfrac{2a+b+c+d}{a}=\dfrac{a+2b+c+d}{b}=\dfrac{a+b+2c+d}{c}=\dfrac{a+b+c+2d}{d}\)
\(\Rightarrow\dfrac{2a+b+c+d}{a}-1=\dfrac{a+2b+c+d}{b}-1=\dfrac{a+b+2c+d}{c}-1=\dfrac{a+b+c+2d}{d}-1\)
\(\Rightarrow\dfrac{a+b+c+d}{a}=\dfrac{a+b+c+d}{b}=\dfrac{a+b+c+d}{c}=\dfrac{a+b+c+d}{d}\)
\(\Rightarrow a=b=c=d\)
\(M=\dfrac{a+b}{c+d}+\dfrac{b+c}{d+a}+\dfrac{c+d}{a+b}+\dfrac{a+d}{b+c}\)
\(=1+1+1+1\)
\(=4\)
\(TH2:a+b+c+d=0\)
\(\Rightarrow\left\{{}\begin{matrix}a+b=-\left(c+d\right)\\b+c=-\left(d+a\right)\\c+d=-\left(a+b\right)\\d+a=-\left(b+c\right)\end{matrix}\right.\)
\(M=\dfrac{a+b}{c+d}+\dfrac{b+c}{d+a}+\dfrac{c+d}{a+b}+\dfrac{a+d}{b+c}\)
\(=-\dfrac{c+d}{c+d}-\dfrac{d+a}{d+a}-\dfrac{a+b}{a+b}-\dfrac{b+c}{b+c}\)
\(=-1-1-1-1\)
\(=-4\)