\(=\left(x+y\right)^2-9=\left(x+y-3\right)\left(x+y+3\right)\)
\(=x^2+2xy+y^2-9=\left(x+y\right)^2-9=\left(x+y-3\right)\left(x+y+3\right)\)
\(x^2+2xy-9+y^2\)
\(=\left(x^2+2xy+y^2\right)-9\)
\(=\left(x+y\right)^2-3^2\)
\(=\left(x+y-3\right)\left(x+y+3\right)\)