\(\left\{{}\begin{matrix}x+y=2m-1\left(1\right)\\x^2+y^2=m^2+2m-3\left(2\right)\end{matrix}\right.\)
\(\left(2\right)\Leftrightarrow\left(x+y\right)^2-2xy=m^2+2m-3\)
\(\Leftrightarrow\left(2m-1\right)^2-m^2-2m+3=2xy\)
\(\Leftrightarrow2xy=3m^2-6m+4\)
\(P_{min}\Leftrightarrow3m^2-6m+4\left(min\right)\)
\(3\left(m^2-2m+\dfrac{4}{3}\right)=3\left(m^2-2m+1+\dfrac{1}{3}\right)=3\left[\left(m-1\right)^2+\dfrac{1}{3}\right]=3\left(m-1\right)^2+1\ge1\)
\("="\Leftrightarrow m=1\)