4x2+y2+2xy=4x+4y
=>(x2+2xy+y2)+3x2+y2-4x-4y=0
=> (x+y)2+3\(\left(x^2-\dfrac{4}{3}x\right)+\left(y^2-4y\right)=0\)
=> (x+y)2+3\(\left(x^2-2.\dfrac{4}{6}+\dfrac{16}{36}-\dfrac{16}{36}\right)+\left(y^2-4y+4\right)-4=0\)
=> (x+y)2+3\(\left(x-\dfrac{4}{6}\right)^2-\dfrac{4}{3}+\left(y-2\right)^2-4=0\)
=> (x+y)2+3\(\left(x-\dfrac{4}{6}\right)^2+\left(y-2\right)^2=\dfrac{16}{3}\)