Từ 2 PT ta được:
\(\Leftrightarrow x^2-x^2y+y^2-y^2x=x-2xy+y\\ \Leftrightarrow\left(x+y\right)^2-xy\left(x+y\right)-\left(x+y\right)=0\\ \Leftrightarrow\left(x+y\right)\left(x+y-xy-1\right)=0\\ \Leftrightarrow\left(x+y\right)\left(1-y\right)\left(x-1\right)=0\\ \Leftrightarrow\left[{}\begin{matrix}x+y=0\\y=1\\x=1\end{matrix}\right.\)
Với \(x+y=0\Leftrightarrow x=-y\Leftrightarrow-y+2y^2+y=3\Leftrightarrow y^2=\dfrac{3}{2}\Leftrightarrow\left[{}\begin{matrix}y=\dfrac{\sqrt{6}}{2}\Leftrightarrow x=-\dfrac{\sqrt{6}}{2}\\y=-\dfrac{\sqrt{6}}{2}\Leftrightarrow x=\dfrac{\sqrt{6}}{2}\end{matrix}\right.\)
Với \(y=1\Leftrightarrow x-2x+1=3\Leftrightarrow x=-2\)
Với \(x=1\Leftrightarrow1-2y+y=3\Leftrightarrow y=-2\)
Vậy \(\left(x;y\right)\in\left\{\left(-2;1\right);\left(1;-2\right);\left(\dfrac{\sqrt{6}}{2};-\dfrac{\sqrt{6}}{2}\right);\left(-\dfrac{\sqrt{6}}{2};\dfrac{\sqrt{6}}{2}\right)\right\}\)